Summer Adventures In Love Magic
What are summer adventures in love magic?
If you live in the Northern Hemisphere, you may be planning your summer travel adventures. You’ll imagine jetting off to some exotic destination where you’ll have a delightful holiday filled with excitement, new things to experience and new people to know, much of which and many of whom you’ll soon forget.
If you want to have exciting adventures that will connect you together with new relationships that will last long after you return home, I invite you to consider having adventures that are both money friendly and life changing. I invite you to consider having adventures in love magic.
I’m not saying there isn’t a price to be paid to take this journey. You’ll have to drop your self-absorption, that abnormally blinding focus on you that ignores or even violates the needs of others. You’ll have to decide to begin to dismantle those protective walls you’ve erected, those walls that keep you away from true connection with others. You’ll have to humble yourself to become love’s servant.
I have a friend who has devoted himself to being love’s servant. He is in a sometimes romantic and sometimes just friends relationship with a woman who has endured severe trauma that affects the way she moves through her life. People have frequently disappointed or abused her. Her history has made it difficult for her to trust that anyone will consistently be there for her.
He loves her with an unselfish spirit and a love-filled heart. She can’t always give him what he wants. He’s fine with that. He loves her enough to cherish her wherever she is.
Because my friend has devoted himself to being love’s servant, he consistently treats her with the most exquisite gentleness and love. His recent Facebook posts convey a sense of what he chooses to do to help her heal through receiving his love:
“Never knowing whether an episode will last for half an hour or half a month.”
“You can’t tell just by looking at someone what they are dealing with inside.”
“Even when we’re old and gray I will love you more each day.”
“Never miss out on a good woman who can make your life great just because she’s lil (sic) difficult…the good ones are never easy but worth it!”
“Love – Giving someone the power to destroy you and trusting them not to.”
My friend calls what he does “positive magic.” Don’t you love it!
I have done positive magic with my mom. I didn’t begin doing positive magic with her right away. It took me a long time before I could fully accept she wasn’t going to get well after a catastrophic head injury that never healed and eventually caused her to develop dementia. I wanted her to get well. I believed she would get well.
Not only did she not get well, her condition steadily deteriorated.
When I let go of what I wanted to love her as she was, I became love’s servant. It was pure joy for me to see her glow because I disciplined my voice to be consistently soft and loving whenever I spoke with her. I consistently cherished her with the way I used my voice. I never criticized her. I always praised her.
It was pure joy for me to see her glow because I focused on doing whatever I could do to help her feel safe and valuable.
On this Mother’s Day weekend, it is pure joy for me to look back on our last few years together and know I did all I could do to help her feel consistently loved and supported during one of the most difficult times in her life.
I adored being love’s servant and still do all I can do with the people in my life to be love’s servant, regardless of the challenges each relationship presents. Do I do it perfectly? No. Do I do my best each day to be love’s servant? Yes.
As with my friend, I learned being love’s servant is its own reward.
Are you willing to embark upon your own summer adventures in love magic?
Remember, there is a price to pay. You’ll have to drop your self-absorption, that abnormally blinding focus on you that ignores or even violates the needs of others. You’ll have to decide to begin to dismantle those protective walls you’ve erected, those walls that keep you away from true connection with others. You’ll have to humble yourself to become love’s servant.
If you decide to do this, you’ll have the chance to explore adventures in true intimacy that far exceed your previous relationships. You’ll discover endless previously hidden levels in your beloveds that invite you to discover endless previously hidden levels within yourself. You’ll experience the excitement that comes from seeing someone who has been through hell blossom because you chose to love them with everything you have. And you’ll experience the continuously unfolding joy of developing a deep love relationship that surpasses anything you’ve previously experienced.
What say you?
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